Dear One,
If you’ve just discovered your partner’s infidelity, you’re probably feeling like the ground dropped out from under you. The grief, the rage, the shame, the numbness — it’s a storm no one prepares you for.
Or perhaps you’re stuck in an unhappy marriage and have been spinning your wheels for years, trying to figure out if you want to call it quits or not.
Stay or Go-Healing After Infidelity is the newsletter is for you.
While my focus is on older women affected by infidelity, the topics I will address will be helpful to anyone for anyone pondering the stay or go question.
The wisdom and clarity you are seeking is there for the taking. But how do you find it when you’re overwhelmed and stuck in a cycle of second guessing?
Over 10 weeks, we’ll gently untangle the mess together:
What counts as betrayal (and who gets to decide)
Why people cheat — and why it matters
How to take care of yourself when your world tilts
The signs of genuine remorse vs. manipulation
Other important questions to consider
I’m also going to have other goodies as well:
A downloadable decision matrix
Resources that I found useful
Ask Me Anything Posts
Journal prompts
You are not alone. And I am so sorry for the pain and confusion you may feel right now. It is difficult, but speaking from experience, I know you will get through this. For right now, you just have to take care of you.
Let’s start there.
With love and fierce compassion,
Theresa
The days of making money for a newspaper or magazine are over! Now I write as a labor of love but that doesn’t stop the expenses from rolling in. ;) I am deeply grateful for any subscription amount you may choose. And if you can’t, I am still delighted you are here!